Worries Explained, Book 4
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Chapter 1, Introduction
new book in the Sexual Worries Explained series consists of short
articles on the subject of sexual worry, worries about health,
personal hygiene and coping with goal setting and computers. There is
also a 2,000 words article on the history of fucking. On a quite
serious note, there is another article about self-defense if you are
a porn addict. And there are articles on worries about adoption,
changing the world, problem solving and analyzing your personal data,
if it is right to get pleasure or not, if you really should be a
success or not and whether art is trash. As well as this, then there
are articles for people who worry about change in the world, if they
should still keep trying as if there hadn't been any change or what
they should try to do if they accept there has been change that
affects them. Another article is on worry about the human body. And
there are a goal setting tips and computer tips for people who might
find goal setting or computers a problem. There are also articles
about personal experiences.
of these subjects are about worry when the easiest thing to do if you
are worried is just to put on a porn film. This is one way people
relax and unwind when they feel stressed. Other alternatives are to
address your worries and these articles have help and tips about many
areas of worry. Also, you can improve your personal hygiene and
include this on a more general goal-setting plan. It might for
example include thinking about what movies, TV shows or books you
feel bored with or you might feel the shows have some deeper problem
with them. This book includes discussions about how TV shows and
books can be a problem if people have already seen a lot of them.
Anybody who does not feel jaded about things he sees can skip these
sections. Or they can read them just out of interest. Also, they can
persuade themselves not to be too keen on goalsetting that they will
become bored or jaded about it themselves. And this is when watching
too much television can be harmful. As well, if you can't stop doing
it, then it can be a source of anxiety in itself. Also, a computer
can be a source of anxiety in itself. And the book has some more tips
about computers when they can be such a problem as you can get porn
on them if you go online.
can read any article in any order. Whilst the articles vary in length
considerably, none of them are so long that you would not be able to
read most any of them in one sitting. Please enjoy this book. It does
not give any definitive solutions or big ideas but does talk about
subjects that cause people stress or make them want to put on a porn
film. It may be informative to people who don't have a porn problem
about something that you read about in the headlines on occasion or
other people could read it who watch porn and think they may have had
enough of watching porn but still have thoughts about lots of things
going around in their head and unanswered questions.
Chapter 2, Advice and Tips
look at two statements that you often hear, A and B.
your own spare time, nobody is telling you what to do and you can do
anything you like.
books tell you what you should do if you want to be successful, have
people like you and to make money.
number of points can be made by comparing these two statements,
skills won't make you rich. Perfectly good social skills are expected
of everybody who starts work. Without already having good social
skills, people wouldn't even be hired to do the lowliest of jobs. If
there is a secret to making a million, then it can't just be social
skills or anything to do with social skills.
the secret of success in business and making money is to do a degree
in accountancy and then train for several more years as an
you do in your spare time unless it was dating the boss's daughter
would help you to be a success at work.
only relevant things to success at work for most people are
qualifications and experience. No employer would usually want to know
what your hobbies and interests were. The only time he might ask it
would then be a negative reason that he thought you were a little odd
and so would put off his other employees from coming to work.
Anxiety psychologists and medical
doctors tell us is caused by people thinking they must do something,
they should do something or they ought to do something. Also, anxious
people think they should be something or they should appear like
something to others. How near is this disease to what self-help books
are doing? These books often say that you should earn a million a
year. But that is an assumption. Some people will be happier with
less. Also, their teachers at school give young people pep talks.
Their teachers tell them that they should change the world and do
something for the community. But you're doing something for your
community just by having a job, not being ill and a burden on others
and having anything to say. And how many ways are there of changing
the world anyway? If there were an election today, most people would
probably agree with 80% of what one or other of the candidates said.
So why if they were elected wouldn't they do just what they said at
the election! They probably would if they could and they probably do
most of it. This is at least compared to if somebody completely
different had gotten in. Or it is at least if the other candidate had
gotten in more than once. Then he might do more of his agenda. And
things could change. But then people could vote him out and change
them back if they thought he was going too far.
In the end, the only reason some
people will change is if it is a no brainer. Other than that, they
might never change. And this is no matter how much advice people had
given them. But they need the concentration to be able to do it, to
have not overused their computers beforehand or not taken breaks and
to have read all they might want on the subject and as well to have
made notes if they wanted to. As well, it might take something to
happen to them before they change their minds. All of these factors
lead to them thinking that it is really a no brainer. And this is
despite how many factors and other considerations had passed through
their minds at some time or another. Perhaps, readers can work
towards a solution to their own problems so that it appears to them
in the end to be a no brainer. And when they don't just think it but
feel it in their hearts, they might then really change. But then they
will probably know that they are the right decisions for them anyway
when they do come to make them.
At the end of it, if you feel
confused and angry, there is a shriveled old crone too ugly or too
old for anyone to care about her or there is a cynical old person.
The shriveled old crone is bitter and twisted and doesn't feel proper
affection for young people. Yet she influences them if they believe
what she says. And she often tells them things that will get them
into trouble because she hates them for being young and good looking.
She may get away with it but not always. And she probably does really
care a bit for the young people that she does it too that she
wouldn't really want anything very bad to happen to them. When anyone
asks her to explain it on the rare occasions anyone traces it back to
her, she will blame young people for believing her. And she'll say
something like, 'Obviously I didn't really mean it myself'.
Alternatively, there is a cynical old person that expects everyone to
understand that he's just being cynical and doesn't care about things
he hears. But then people think that he does care about them and
that's why he's saying it. So you can't win! If you keep talking
about something and reading about it, then nobody believes that you
don't really care about it. Perhaps, there is some truth in this. And
a silly thing is that the cynical old person might really have
thought that they didn't care about it for a time until somebody
pointed it out to them that they probably did care.
though, the only solution is not to talk about things at all and no
matter who you are. And definitely not to anyone who doesn't know as
much as you do. Still, with the Internet and paper and online
newspapers sometimes over 60 pages long, everyone probably does know
as much as anyone else. So why can't you talk about it? It is just
maybe that nobody wants to hear your point of view. They have a
different one. And nobody who is an adult could still possibly need
to read a newspaper to be educated about politics or current affairs.
So what's the reason to read a newspaper? It is just that if you
didn't, then you wouldn't know anything that was going on in the
world around you. But it is just not a good thing to talk about. This
is despite the many hours every week that some people take getting
the news. It seems they would like to recycle it to improve their
social skills. And that's another silly thing!
But then if you examine what people
talk about, the main thing they talk about is controversy when
discussing any subject. And this controversy is often politics right
out of a newspaper. In fact, some people say that there is absolutely
nothing you can discuss other than controversy. Yet, the silly thing
is that they often tell worried people never to discuss any kind of
controversy. You mustn't when it is poor social skills. So what does
that leave you to talk about? Often, it leaves people their work to
talk about or else, they talk about something like computers. This
means they are either work or computer bores or both.
Computers are only a word processor
and spreadsheet or at least that's what they were for years. But now
you can watch television on them. Alternatively, you can read a novel
on them. So it seems that it is a safe subject to talk about for many
people. Perhaps, it avoids having to say what was actually in the
television program or in the novel. But ultimately, anyone they say
it to will find it boring unless they are also a computer bore.
Really, it depends on your friends. So who really wants to know this
stuff? And why would they want to know it? Perhaps nobody wants to
hear about computers because at some level it is always boring or
inappropriate. So that's another silly thing! Yet computers help some
people. They use computers to communicate all sorts of ideas. And
they do all of this with basic software such as word processors and
spreadsheets. Everyone uses this basic software.
And maybe the cynical old man and the
shriveled old crone were only talking for the sake of talking. As
well, that is just a silly thing that people have to say something.
But this is when others might at times criticize them for it. Unless
that is, you avoid controversial issues you really can't talk about!
Perhaps, some things are always bad things to say. Or, at least, this
is true for most people about some subjects. Try to think what these
things are that, in fact, you should never say. Really, you know what
they are, don't you? Silly isn't it if you ever said anything about
them when really you did know.
There are two more silly things. That
you know a lot about things from reading the newspapers that you
really should never say is one. And second that possibly for years
you've skipped any articles in a newspaper that were not
controversial as not being important. But that is assuming anything
in a newspaper isn't controversial. Perhaps do something silly like
buy yet another newspaper tomorrow and look next time to see if
anything is controversial. Also, you could look to see if they don't
fully explain anything. Possibly, you can read something that is not
controversial! But once you understand the controversy around it,
then it is controversial no longer! Maybe, though, there really is
some other reason to read it.
not having a sense of smell count as well as not wearing glasses?
They say that if you can't defend
against a punch to your nose, then your sense of smell will be worse.
So someone who can defend themselves has a good sense of smell. And
never talk to anyone unless you can guess what shower gel they use
because they smell of this shower gel. And they don't smell of BO. If
you talk with someone who has even the slightest trace of BO, then
you are asking them to start an argument with you and then to beat
you up. Or they'll quite probably store it up for later.
Alternatively, if you are fat they might complain you smell as well.
It's a toss-up if they object to you first before you notice they
smell also. How long before they tell you to get out their house. Not
soon enough, you might think.
say that big men don't need to defend themselves. They do need to
defend themselves just as much as anyone else does and particularly
if they are unfit. Big doesn't equal strong or fit. In fact, it means
the person is grossly overweight and obese and must be physically
unfit to be such as unhealthy size. And he should do everything
possible to lose weight if he wanted to have any chance in a fight.
You have an advantage if you weigh a
lot if you can put some of their body weight into their punch and
particularly if you move their legs to put your whole body into it.
This has some disadvantages as well. Your opponent can see punches
more easily. Or they could pull you forward. But it increases the
strength of the punch.
learning self-defense might be over-confident and pick a fight. He is
likely to regret it.
you have a small chin that can't take a punch, you can't really
defend yourself or be any kind of a fighter. So forget it. Try to use
some self-defense techniques that don't actually involve fighting
get into a fight to start with you won't win'.
out of trouble at all costs'.
problem with any self-defense techniques that use the hands or
punching is they have zero effectiveness against someone with a gun
or knife. If you punch your way out of an initial attack but he knows
where to find you, then you have the same problems again. And he
might not want to 'take his punishment'. Or this is whatever you
thought he would do or not do. Or he hates you more for harming him
or his friends or thinks it humiliating.
likes someone who is happy. Someone who is not happy attracts the
same negative people to him, as he is himself. This can be either
negative people as friends or he may make enemies. The same self-help
books you read about getting a better life mean you are someone who
may never have to worry about getting into a fight.
works if you are wrong. But make only reasonable excuses.
biggest thing you can say is that you really and genuinely did not do
anything wrong. Then any anger directed at you would disappear. Or it
will be hard to find to start with. However, some are surprised to
find this helps so well, let alone that it helps at all.
you are not responsible for others and their actions. Don't feel bad
about what others do. And don't join in just because you're with
them. You do not have to be the same as negative people even if you
you someone who feels they should choose their words carefully when
speaking? Then you can stop this. It is better to say nothing rather
than say something you can't repeat accurately or it is genuinely
going to be open to doubt.
try to educate your friends about anything. This is supposed to be at
root snobbishness researchers have said. Some people will see it as
nonsense anyway to do this to your friends. And you might wonder at
the kind of stuff that you talk when you try to educate people or
elucidate on some topic. You might not realize how you sound.
Perhaps, you think that you are an expert on the subject or anyone
would want to hear what you know of it. But you sound like a drunkard
off his barstool.
good things you do and moral behavior will pay you back. It will pay
you back by others thinking well of you.
say an artist almost never has to defend himself. An artist is
concerned with beauty. Thinking of beauty, he never does anything
anyone would object to. This is whatever the subject of his work even
when it is about social issues. He has learnt about social issues
before he speaks but talks of art. There is a kind of beauty in
self-control. And he only describes social issues of genuine interest
to an artist. These issues are not controversial at all when you know
art. And some issues he leaves well alone. They are not art.
you should learn more about art and the media to improve your
conversation and find good topics to discuss. This is despite
thinking you hear everything and you can talk about everything you
hear. You don't. That is wrong.
some exercise? A soft stomach if someone punched it, even not very
hard, is enough to cause a serious injury. Do stomach exercises at
least. Your arms do not matter so much and the same for the chest. A
punch to the chest if you have no chest muscles can damage your
despite what you hear about men they say you would never know were
expert fighters from their appearance, it is almost impossible to
defend yourself without some muscle. If thin men can do it, then
their thin bodies have plenty of hard muscle. And they can pack a
punch and take one as well.
some exercises. It is useful to be able to defend yourself if ever
you might physically have to be able to. This is at least against
some people and a bit better against others. Being a punch bag and
just taking punches when you can't put your fists up will get you
more badly injured, as will having no muscle or hardly any at all on
lose your temper with anyone.
you lose your temper with your friends, they will not be your friends
any more. And it may be more serious if you lose it with someone
else. They don't know you to know you don't mean it or you're a nice
person. And they don't care what happens to you.
your temper is a big reason fights start. And if you never say
anything bad about anyone behind their backs, it may be the only
reason. This is unless you have money, have had sex with a girl they
liked, or you have anything to give them that you did not give them.
you do get into a fight, then keep your guard up. This is even if you
don't return many punches or injure him. Then someone can still sort
it out for you. They may stop the fight. Or otherwise, nobody can
sort it out for you if you're a cripple.
you annoy the wrong person, then nobody may be able to sort it out
for you. Nor will you be able to if you cannot defend yourself
adequately or at all. And nor is it a good idea always to make the
first move if you don't want jail time. This is when his friends or
the police could find out anyway. Try not annoying anyone or give
anyone any cause to dislike you.
how to speak politely and well and to listen. It will stand you in
good stead perhaps for life. This is as well if you don't just one
day feel tired or like having an argument.
you can't do 'self-defense', then the consequences may be disastrous.
They could be death, and anything less than that. Some physical
self-defense techniques are necessary and desirable to know, but best
fit body and mind is good for anyone. As well, it is at least just
healthy. And it will prevent you getting into trouble by appearing
polite, attentive and pleasant. Also, it will help you not get so
badly hurt if anyone does ever physically attack you.
20, Go With the Flow
you improve your levels of happiness and self-esteem, you may see a
rise in your levels of reading, reasoning and creative ability. And
as well, having good physical health may mean you want to apply
yourself to solving problems and putting things you think are wrong
right. However, don't. You do not know it all yet. Leave it to others
to suggest solutions to society's or anyone else's problems.
to say it this way, 'if you suggest solutions, then you'll find that
the marketplace is crowded'. Some don't realize when they start that
there are already people doing all of it. You have many other clever
and articulate people keen to suggest solutions to any problems
anyone has. So 'when they are talented and clever people around, you
don't need to do it yourself' is one way of thinking of it. This is
particularly if all you have to offer is reason and your time and
effort to solve problems. Don't start down the road of learning about
it and talking about it. Besides which, you only have the newspapers
and the TV to go by and don't really know anything different from
anyone else like you at all.
try to do something else you like that in the end you will like
better such as art or reading novels. Or study to get a job or learn
about a new hobby that does not involve suggesting solutions to other
people's problems. Others don't want your solutions. They want
theirs. And they can suggest solutions to any problem just the same
as you or a lot better. Someone is always interested in any problems.
As well, other people may know powerful, rich, high status people, or
they have some advantage that you don't have and never will have.
with the flow. Try to find happiness and personal fulfilment, but
don't take an interest in politics or other people's problems. But do
some exercise. And exercise and improving your mind are really givens
that will make you happy. And nobody will dislike or attack you if
you are happy because happy people are popular. Happiness rubs off on
others and everyone wants some to rub off on them. They are not going
to attack someone who is happy, contented, doesn't seem to have
problems of their own and doesn't worry about others. Nor do they
don't mind anyone who minds their own business and does their own
THINGS CAN HELP
water if you're thirsty and not tea and coffee. Eat if you're hungry
and don't drink.
to be more open-minded and to want to hear what other artists and
writers have to say. Do this whilst relegating your own work as not
really been very important.
Get the news. This could be
political, cultural or any news. And don't just have things going
around in your head. Instead, look to see who is really changing
things that get in the news you see normally. Watch TV News if you
feel this it is better than newspaper or radio news. This is even
though you should reduce your screen time. It might mean that you
actually catch the news rather than missing it.
Make time to clean, wash and cook. Do
some exercise, go out for walk and do some stretching exercises,
cardiovascular exercises or exercises to tone your muscles. Get to
bed at a reasonable time and try to get into the habit of not staying
up using your computer or looking at porn on the television late at
night. Watch some other TV such as the late film to break the habit.
Take all medicines regularly. If you do feel as though you might be a
bit ill or run down, then just go and have a nap and don't bother
doing anything. Also, don't bother about not having lots of food and
keeping to a low calorie diet. But don't have too many sugary things
and get toothache. Make your favorite meal if it makes you feel
physically and emotionally better. It might really have just that
effect as a medical fact.
off the porn as much as you can. If you really feel the need to see
somebody naked because of it being on your mind that you could do so,
then switch off after you've watched a few minutes. Look up
everything you can about the porn industry, normal sexual
relationships and anything to do with sex so you at least don't feel
guilty about it when it is just out of ignorance or you would not be
HISTORY OF FUCKING
They say that girls pay attention in
their lessons and unlike boys don't drink too much, are less likely
to take drugs and are less likely to do nothing once they leave
school. They see their lessons that they learned at school as saying
people really are different from them and they should be proud of and
take part only in their own culture. Still, in a porn film with black
men, you can see some girls like this actually fucked. Also, fucking
is about color because of what it looks like.
Children hear things at school but
later their teachers say that they misunderstood them. And
that is that racism is all about discriminating against people
because of the color of their skin. For example, later they might say
that anyone who thought that they didn't come from genuinely
different cultures was ignorant. And ignorance is racist. Then much
later sometimes than that, the tell people that not to want sex with
people of a different culture even when you recognize that they are
from a different culture is racist as well.
There is a basic cultural and
biological problem with sex. That is that women can get pregnant but
people can also have sex for pleasure. Possibly, if people say that
women are just worried about getting pregnant and not racist when
they don't want to bring up a child that would be culturally confused
or where they could not have a proper long-term relationship with the
father, they tell them that contraception really does work and so
there's no problem. Later than this, they tell women that of course
contraception does not always work but that it is still racist not to
want sex with them. And they say now that there is no problem with
the child being culturally confused.
that, they then say that the child will likely be culturally confused
and discriminated against but that it is a punishment given to the
woman for being racist. Asked if this is wrong to play games with
human life like that, they say that people should have a wider view
and not such a pedantic one about human rights. As well, they say
that if anyone complains, then these children will have even less
human rights than they do now. This is when nobody would want them at
all. Or they wouldn't if they thought about it too much.
Asked again if there is still not now
a solution to it, they might say that the woman was racist because
she didn't just kill the child when it was born. And she's racist
because she was pedantic in thinking it might be illegal or anyone
would arrest her. As well, she was racist if she was bothered about
going to prison. Also, if some women say that it is morally wrong for
religious reasons, then they tell them that, in fact, it's not
against their religion. This is when millions of people have died in
religious wars for centuries. As well, they will quote passages from
the Bible that they say mean it is all right to kill. And they'll say
that it is not just the one commandment that is all some people seem
to know about. So, if they think there are religious reasons not to,
then they are cabbages. And that is racist.
can all just go around and around in your head. People say one thing,
then a different thing and then say it is the same thing'.
is no universally agreed definition of racism and many political
bodies do not even have any actual definition of racism even when
they talk about it. One problem with this is you might say for
example that all wars are racist. Possibly, it would just not make
proper sense to refer to racism in debates about a war when everyone
knows that war is racist. But in some documents and in some debates,
they do talk about racism. Still, it is not always clear what they're
One definition that does seem almost
universally agreed on is that white women refusing to sleep with
black men is racist. But the authorities don't put it down on paper.
They don't when it is hard to see how to say it in political language
example of this is that it would be unimaginable to convict a black
man of the rape of a white woman if the white woman had actually said
something so that he knew she was racist. Also, it is if the black
man had said that he could tell she was racist when he had sex with
her. And if given this case, many white people would agree that the
law should be different for black people. This is whatever other
principal of law is broken by this.
Yet, not all black people will fuck a
woman for being racist. This is when their parents don't want to look
after the child and wouldn't respect the child or the mother or want
to see her around their house with or without the child. In fact,
getting pregnant from fucking is quite likely.
should be said that fucking is actually legal. And it has been for
really would agree that a white woman not wanting sex with a black
man is racist'.
Also, when treating people
differently because of skin color or cultural background, some people
think it raises questions about whether there should be any rape law
at all. Perhaps, rape should be legal for anyone. But politicians do
not actually do this although some might think it is a good idea.
Instead, recently sentences the government has put up rape sentences.
Someone convicted of rape can now to go to prison for up to 25 years.
And David Cameron gave a vitriolic condemnation of rape as a crime in
the House of Commons when he announced this policy.
summarize what the article has said already might be the reasons for
white women not wanting sex with black men. A woman really might just
be worried about getting pregnant. So much of education says people
are different despite the usual thing said about racism that it is
all about skin color. Nobody really wants to have a 'coconut' or
black on the outside and white on the inside child. Genuine black
people object to them when they meet them and discriminate against
them. The fathers as well do not stay around or the mother might not
often get on with the father's family. Other people will also
discriminate against their child and them as well throughout their
lives. Nobody could want this. And they cannot avoid it no matter
anything they say. As well, despite the vitriolic things you hear
about racism, the same people it seems often don't criticize people
for discriminating like this.
And this is as well when color is it
appears often at the root of the any 'problem' people have with
fucking. If the child was white and not mixed race, there then might
be no problem. For a mixed race child, it seems that skin color
is particularly people's
problems with them. Mixed race people can even become a bit obsessed
about it. This is when it is about their appearance. They see it in
the mirror every day. Also, they see it when they look down at their
hands or their arms or they have a shower.
why is there this thing about fucking? This is if when really
everybody if you asked them would probably know everything of the
above and more.
really is that once women have had sex with a black man even if they
didn't want it to start with, they say that they then stopped being
racist. And these women say as well that they were genuinely racist
to start with. It did not seem such a big deal anymore. This was once
they'd just had sex with someone. They could see then that they were
just human beings. And they were just human beings as anyone else is.
works! It really does have the power that everyone has at one time
heard of about it. But people who are worried about race want to
think it doesn't have this power. They didn't want to think about it
too much either or obsessed with it. Either this was when they feared
it or it confused them. As well, this is when really fucking does
work. And it does just as they say. Also, it works in a way that
feeds into some people's fears. This is when white men have no power
back. Or it could be white women as well that worry that they have no
power back. Also, some younger women worry about being fucked
themselves at some time in the future. It might happen to them. Then
they would have been fucked and laughed at as well.
they hear it said that everyone would laugh at them. This is
including men that they thought were also racist. But they will laugh
even harder at them or at least just as much. It works like nothing
else for anything. Women stop being racist once fucked. As well, it
makes some racist men reconsider their own racist ways. Also, it
works to stop people being racist when nothing else does. Nothing
else could have persuaded a woman not to be racist.
it is harmless. It is when it is just a bit of sex. And after the man
has come, then it is usually all over. Any effect on women if they
are not by chance badly hurt is all in their mind. And they will not
be racist from now on. It is generally powerful like that.
Fucking has the power to stop women
being racist. And it has this real power. It stops racism as well
when nothing else would work. This is even if anyone tried anything
else. It is a lot quicker than anything else proposed. And at that,
it is guaranteed to work.
well, black men have things going for them. This is such as they have
no problems making conversation. And they have hobbies and interests
they do well or talents in the creative arts. Also, they can have
good jobs that need qualifications, skills and experience. Or they at
least have normal jobs. Everyone at work respects them. And everyone
everywhere else respects them as well.
feel after having sex with a black man that it was just 'having sex'.
It is just like with anyone else as well that you might have done it
with. And women now realize how stupid they had been. They had been
stupid for years to worry about it.
really is that once they've had sex with a black man, then these
women are no good to any white men who are racist. This is something
people have heard about fucking. And that is perhaps the real reason
why some people do actually worry a lot. This is that they worry
about black men with white women. They worry what it looks like as
Women who have been fucked will never
be racist themselves again. Nor will they ever have a bad word to say
about a black person. Yet, although somebody's dreams really can be
over in however long it takes them to be fucked, it is only because
they were racist to start with. And now they can start again just as
well. Nor is anybody really hurt by it.
should be remembered that everybody agrees that it is wrong to be
racist. That is everybody at all agrees racism is wrong'.
many of these women can just pick up their lives again and start
where they left off. People tell these women never to ask for any
explanation. This is about how they could have been so stupid
beforehand. The only explanation they need is anyone who told them
any different to what they now know was just racist. And if they got
a child by it, then they will now just have to bring it up.
This is when black men are obviously
not going to use a condom. They aren't when the woman is racist.
Fucking would not have such a big effect if there weren't at least
some risk. These are risks of getting pregnant or of catching a
disease. So, the woman could still have been racist if he had used a
condom. As well, you probably can't use a condom when you're doing it
anyway as it would come off. So, that is another type of explanation
if you wanted one like that.
the history books say what racism was or is really still like for
black people. And it has been very terrible for them. So why complain
if now they take a little revenge? All it is usually is that white
women have had sex with a black person. And there should really be no
problem with just a bit of sex! And nor if it was with anyone. Nor
should anyone be worried about fucking!
saw a video of a black girl naked on a web cam. After dancing naked
to the web cam, she reached under her pillow and got out a white
dildo. Then, she put it in her mouth and sucked it. It did not look
very attractive and I thought it was a bit abusive. She was either
abusive of herself or somebody had asked her to do it.
Another video had a woman applying to
do modeling. But they told her that there were only jobs doing nude
modeling. The female interviewer asked her how many boyfriends she'd
had. She was a bit circumspect to tell her. The interviewer asked her
when she said that she hadn't had a boyfriend many questions until
eventually the modeling applicant said that she was still a virgin
and that she had never even been kissed. Next, they discussed what
scene she would like to do and the woman said that she wouldn't mind
doing a lesbian scene. So they did a lesbian scene. In this scene
that was done their and then in the same room, the interviewer stayed
fully clothed and brought the other woman to orgasm. After she had
gone, the interviewer took her clothes off and you could see that she
was also a virgin. She made a joke about never having seen a virgin
porn viewer who watched this video thought it was a reasonably funny
joke. But, as well, it involved real nudity and real virgins. Also,
you even saw someone kissed for the very first time. It made sex,
nudity and virginity into a commercial or artistic product in a way
that was a bit unsettling.
video of an attractive 35-year old virgin also made sex into a
product that you could pay for and in a way that the Subject had not
seen before. The man seemed not to actually like the woman because
she had a very hairy head of hair and nipple piercings. Still, he
asked her if she was OK with having sex with him on camera and she
gave a strong affirmative yes. It was obvious that she was not really
into it but probably needed the money. Nobody else would give her the
money. In the video, it started with vaginal sex but then moved on to
anal sex and a blow job when it appeared that it would have stopped
earlier at the vaginal sex but it didn't in fact. He even joked that
she was no longer an anal virgin. She had gone from being a virgin to
penetration of all three holes.
porn viewer thought this video was a bit different.
It was different in that usually I
had assumed beforehand that the men were always into it. And if the
woman say words like 'fuck' or other words like that, then the man is
still really into it even if they aren't really. So this was the
first video I'd seen where she might not really like having sex that
much with him because he didn't appreciate her properly even just
sexually. And that made me feel different from the usual talk you
hear that the women are all to blame if the video has suggestions
that they fuck her. As well, I thought as to why they would bother in
real life if they didn't really like each other. So it made it more
of a commercial product when even he didn't really like doing it.
Also, I was at work years ago when
another woman heard that a friend of hers from the same ethnic group
had appeared in a porn film as another employee told her that. The
employee they told this was against anyone sleeping with women from
her ethnic group. And she said that if anyone did from outside of her
ethnic group, then he should be castrated or killed. She went and
phoned her friend. But she came back happy. She said that the friend
had said to her that she had no money and that was why she did it.
Therefore, she did not believe any wrong had been done when the
reason was not enough money. Nor would she hear any criticism of her
friend by anyone else or even any criticism of the man in the video.
She said that her friend was not a slut. Any criticism made no sense
at all and nor of the either of them. So she steadfastly refused to
give any criticism at all. This was of anyone involved.
was the first time I'd been exposed to these ideas. It seemed that
when people have no money, then the normal moral or social judgments
are suspended. Nobody from her community if her family did not have
the money would pay for her. There were no charities in her community
that paid for women if they said that if they didn't get money they
would otherwise have to appear in porn. And even the father if it was
a lot of money did not have to give it to her. He would not get any
moral censure if he didn't. This was because he might want the money
himself. People can do things with money, buy things they like or put
it in their pension pot. Money can even mean that people live and
it is feeling a bit low that means people want some kind of sexual
pleasure to make them feel better again. And perhaps one reason to
feel bad is not being able to lose weight despite being on a diet.
One Subject who talked to the author for this book said that he had
tried everything and read everything to lose weight. But he had not
been able to. His diet and exercise plan when he typed it out on his
computer ran to over 30 pages. And there were dozens of tips all
probably equally important in it. As well, he made hundreds of pages
of handwritten notes about it and used up dozens of notebooks. Yet,
he did not lose any weight at all.
worried that his weight would stop him getting a girlfriend when his
fat was so unsightly. And really, he just felt a bit insulted when
people tried to reassure him. For example, they told him that no
women worth having would mind him looking like that. He knew that it
was not true. Perhaps, they were well meaning. But also, they might
be taking the proverbial out of him. It caused him some late nights
with worry. As well, sometimes he would stay up all night trying to
improve his diet and exercise plan. Yet, after several years of worry
and planning like this, he had lost no weight at all. Indeed, he had
even put some on.
he decided that this worry was too much. The only thing he would try
to do would be to do a bit more exercise from now on. He enjoyed
doing exercise anyway. But he hated watching what food he ate. Today,
he hopes that just doing exercise is the real secret behind people's
weight loss. He heard someone in the media say that it was. As well,
he also heard in the media that reducing calories has no effect on
weight loss. And it might even make you put weight on. It remains to
be seen how well his new regime works to reduce his weight. Also, he
might have to wait to see if he will even be able to stop thinking
about food all the time. This is after so long on a diet.
reason that somebody worried was that they didn't feel that they did
enough of their goals of reading more and watching decent television.
But it might be that people like this are not eating well enough. So
they can't concentrate. And people like this might worry about their
social skills as well. In the past, some people realized that when
they got poor social skills, they would just need to read a bit more
to get them back. Alternatively, they could just watch a bit more TV
if they weren't watching enough already. This would improve their
social skills. But on a very stringent diet, people had not been able
to start doing this again.
had done a creative arts hobby to try to impress potential
girlfriends. But he had only learned how to do his hobby very slowly.
And this might also be caused by poor concentration and not eating
enough. Also, he had not followed all health advice about doing his
hobby that was another problem generally with his health, with stress
and with his concentration. This was on top of everything else.
person with problems had moral issues in his life. This was around
things he did and whether he was responsible for them. Only when he
had eaten a bit better, followed health advice when doing hobbies and
otherwise been able to concentrate better did he find any answers. In
fact, he found that he already knew the answers without reading more.
This was just from his memory coming back to him of things he knew in
the past. Or by chance, he had seen things about it as well. This was
just recently in the media. When he started to get his concentration
back, he had consumed just a bit more media. And he felt that this
had helped him as well.
since the 1960s, he felt that there had been lots in the press saying
people should watch porn. This was when there was so much saying that
things were morally wrong when doing these things might otherwise
mean people didn't watch porn. It was things like being proud of
their bodies, doing exercise, being proud of their communities or
choosing their friends well. Only now could he see through these
problems, if there was any truth in what they said at all and if it
meant he should or should not watch porn. He could do this once he
had some concentration. And this was when he had just taken a break,
eaten more, slept better and read some decent books.
man had a girlfriend. When they met, they usually had sex. But often,
he would give her money for cigarettes, drink and for other things.
This was just because she said that she needed some money and so he
gave it to her. As her boyfriend, she expected him to help her out
with money and bits and pieces. But he worried about his social
skills with her. And he wanted it to be a genuine relationship.
Really, he wanted her to be his normal girlfriend and for them to
spend more time with each other. And he just wished that they could
have the most wonderful conversations. But after so long that this
hadn't happened, he thought he might not see her again.
he got a call from her that sounded like she would be more than
normally pleased for him to come round. When he got there, she did
not want them to spend any time in her living room but took him
straight through into the bedroom. And after they had been to bed
together, he left almost immediately. This was without even going to
the living room again or having any refreshment. But he felt sexually
and emotionally satisfied. And later, he remembered how he had felt
when he put it in his diary. She had been good to him in bed. So he
felt that she was completely genuine.
she just did not want to talk to him that much. Reflecting on this,
he thought that really, they had a good thing going they didn't need
to change. She was just being nice to him asking him for money. And
she did this as a favor when she could see that it took the pressure
off him. For example, she could see that he often struggled to make
decent conversation. As well, he must hate himself for it. So it was
really a big favor. Often, in the past, he felt that making good
conversation meant you got the reward of sex. Yet, it felt so bad to
think like this. It was wrong when it did not make for a good, a
happy or fulfilled relationship. So she was being a genuine female
friend to him. This was at least by sparing him this iniquity.
Possibly, she thought as well that she might just get money for it.
As well, she actually needed money. Only when he had been short of
money himself by chance did he see that even the small amounts he
gave her probably did help quite a bit.
And all of these examples above of
getting a bit better were just from people having for a while
restored some concentration. As well, almost all of this improved
concentration originated in eating a bit healthier. When
concentrating poorly, people found that they did many things more
poorly. So, this worried them. Stress and worry in itself are bad for
health and for your concentration. You can't do things well if you
feel stressed. Stress and worry is a vicious circle. And the opposite
of being relaxed, not tired and able to concentrate is a virtuous
As well, there were often things in
their past that meant people knew they might have problems today
doing things properly. These are such things as drink, drugs,
accidents and bashes to their head, not eating well enough or having
periods where they did nothing. Perhaps, they can improve their
concentration by eating better now. As well, this might repair some
of the damage to their bodies. They definitely don't need to starve
themselves as well. This might cut the vicious circle of
concentrating poorly meaning you make mistakes so that you
concentrate even less well. Alternatively, you might just worry
excessively about not being able to do things properly that can also
affect your concentration just by worrying. Unless you forget to eat,
it is hopeful. Still, it is a long way to go to lose any weight. But
achieve other goals sooner.
the problems people have had in the past and people being obese now
might really reduce their social skills. That would explain it! But,
with good nutrition, they can still do something about it. And they
might yet improve and get better than they ever imagined. This was
when in the depths of despair that they thought that they'd be able
to do so. In fact, the problems of years might be over in a few short
months. This is if they just tried to eat better. As well, they can
do a few other things to do with their health. Other things can help
experiences were that for the first few days when he ate better, he
did watch more TV and listened more to talk radio that was also a
goal. These are both things good for social skills. As well, reading
also gives good social skills. And a variety of things is good for
social skills. It is when people want to hear about lots of things
and not just one type of thing. And doing all of these three things,
it helps more than just one or two of them. These three things are
all there is to do anyway. So it is not very complicated when you
think of it like this. The Subject also decided to reduce how much of
his spare time he spent on hobbies but still not to abandon them
completely. In one way, there were problems with not having enough
time to read if doing hobbies. But really, he just enjoyed his
hobbies as well. So he couldn't stop. And they did stop boredom. This
is when he enjoyed them.
there was another thing at work. In the past, he got bored knowing
all the plots of novels. This was just from having read a lot in a
previous period of his life. He had done this ironically by digesting
properly so much of the goal-setting advice you get. So he needed
some kind of hobby to use up some of his time. Otherwise, he might
get bored with the plots of novels again. It had really taken him
years to forget these plots. And only now he had forgotten them could
he start reading novels again or start watching movies again.
Avoiding consuming too much media, he might not get bored again just
yet. But there are still health considerations if you do too many
hobbies. A common example is a crippling overuse of your hands. This
is when doing a lot of hobbies or creative arts. Perhaps, just strike
a balance. Alternatively, you might just go back to bed or go out for
a walk or tidy up a bit.
else collected some data together to analyze about his hobbies. Using
the adage to keep it simple when planning, he realized that if you
did hobbies a lot, it was often too much. This is as there generally
were problems with them if you do them for long periods. A big
problem with them is that there are health issues around them. But
not doing any normal hobbies at all, he instead wrote long diaries or
notes about his health problems and other goal setting. And he did
this because at the time he did it, he was worrying terribly about
possible health implications of not having a decent diet and exercise
plan and not being able to lose any weight. Perhaps as well, being
more relaxed doing art, he might think better through his problems.
Alternatively, it could cause more health worries and not fewer of
Let's say that something happened. To
you, you are a victim. But other people blame you for what happened.
Your own parents might attack you and say you don't deserve to live
if that is how you behave. Almost nobody else or nobody at all will
have sympathy with you that you know. And anyone who might have
sympathy with you will stay silent often. This is if you realize
their silence is not condemnation possibly because they might tell
you later that they understand what happened to you. They know
because it happened to people they know. And they listened to their
explanations just like yours but it did no good to talk about it.